Amy Puay, yeah..tat’s me!

I am so hapi 4 stil having a bunch of true frens ard me. They wil giv me advise n their main motive is not 2 c me being down… Thank GOD 4 giving me those frens 2 cheer me up whn i was so desperate n dunno wat 2 do. recently i receiv a very encouraging msg frm my long distance gd pal. tis is wat she share wif me:

let the bygone be bygone.u shouldnt be bothered with all this shits, esp if its after so many years. n the so called truth sumhow has been altered or manipulated in order to make u feel better or feel worse (depending on that person’s intention) so the truth isnt that accurate afterall.for me,u should live in the present. cherish the past but not too absord into it, afterall its all history, thats nothing much u could change. if u r too dwell into it, seeking answer for all the whys and what-ifs, it will bring more heartaches to u. as a fren, i want u to be happy. i m staying abroad for quite sum time now. n it really matters the most to me to stay happy always.in life, nothing can bog u down, except u let it. think abt it. take care.

I think tis is a very gd advise n i shall try to follow.

4get bt d past, treasure d present, plan 4 d future.

Tis questions puzzled me 4 quite some time… especially whn i knew sth abt a person & i dunno whether is it btr 2 keep it frm him/her or 2 tel him/her d truth… Only until recently, i was tat "her". Frens tend 2 hide d truth frm me, then finally, reveal it 2 me.

i duno whether which 1 is btr 2 myself… mayb it is a matter of time… mayb it is gd 4 me not 2 know d truth few yrs ago… then it is gd 4 me 2 know d truth recently…. or is it d other way round? i believe tat my frens hv gd intention 2 hide frm me previously, 2 make me feel btr. & then, they think tat its time 4 me 2 know d truth now… 2 help me frm being too foolish in terms of treating ppl ard me.

now only i experienced wat is called "being blinded by everybody" & "acting so foolishly in front of those ppl who knows wat actualy has taken place"… but, it is stil not too late 4 me 2 know wat happened… i m glad tat my frens r very thoughtful & do watever is d best 2 me… but, ther r stil some frens who r so cold blooded!!!!!

I don hv d idea of looking into more details regarding d differences between men & women until yesterday whn i listened to d talk at d church. D talk was presented by a doctor & I think tat watever he said is quite true!!

I tried 2 search 4 d info which he had extracted frm d internet & manage to find part of it as below:

DIFFERENCES BETWEEN MEN & WOMEN
1. A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.

2. Men wake up as good-looking as when they went to bed.
Women somehow deteriorate during the night.

3. A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he wants.
A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn’t want.

4. A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn’t.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won’t change, and she does.

5. There are two times when a man doesn’t understand a woman.
Before and after marriage.

6. A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

7. To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.

8. Any married man should forget his mistakes.
There’s no use in two people remembering the same thing!

9. A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.

10. Women look at a wedding as the beginning of romance,
while men look at a wedding as the ending of romance. 

I hv found a new room at last!! 1st impression was very good…but will I like it whn I stay 4 long? In fact, I still like my current room very very much. If not becoz of ……………….. I will not hv d thought of moving out at all.

10/12/2006…still a long way to go. But time flies sometimes. Jz a click of an eye, I will be sleeping in a new bed. Hm, luv at 1st sight. Once I entered d new hs, I hv a very hapi feeling, knew tat tat is d hs tat i m looking 4.

D thing tat realy caught my attention is d full-length mirror hang in d room (",). I think tat wil b my most precious thing in d room. Hehe, I am quite a "ai mei" gal oh.

But in dilemna..duno how 2 tel my current landlord tat i wil b moving out soon. Don hv d courage 2 tel her since she is such a nice old lady. Most prob wil let her know in early of Nov…. Hope tat i wont miss tis current room so much whn i move in 2 d new room. Hope tat i wil b realy hapi n relax staying in d new room….

Women r complicated…men r even more complicated!!

Rather tough to put it into words. Am sure tat only those who has encounter tis will understand very well even though i nvr elaborate more here. 4 those who has nvr encounter tis wil not understand even though i elaborate more here…

err..nvm if nobody understand wat i m talking abt, jz wan 2 find a way 2 express myself!!!!